Catching up!

Man oh man have I been neglecting you people! well lets see what is new... I went and picked up the pictures from the photographers ( they are releasing the pictures online next week and i will put up a link) i would link it to my facebook, but i know sometimes it doesn't work, and i didn't get all the pictures on it. I have to say i love the pictures from the photographer I think they did an awesome job! Um, I had an eye exam this week and was told i am at high risk for Macular Degeneration (my grandpa and aunt have it) and they said my levels were very high. 100 is good 25 is high risk...i was at 24. Now they are a little concerned because i am so young (23) so the Dr. advised me to start taking some vitamins to help prevent, and lower the risk. These vitamins would help "re-fill" and keep "filled" my pigment levels. that is what i understood and what the Internet told me. It is kind of a scary thing to think because MD causes front vision blindness, ( you are still able to see peripherally) but i am putting my trust and faith in God and knowing all will be okay. Also i am so excited to get my new glasses! i get to pick them up on 12/2 when i also have a contact check up. Lets see what else news is there.... oh some that really irritated me...... So after Grant and I were going through our wedding cards i noticed that one of my bridesmaids (Sara) did not get us anything... i thought that's weird. I mean i lived with this person for 2 years and worked with her for 5 and my gosh considered her an extremely close friend, and she was in my wedding. Well Grant and I went out to eat with one of the groomsmen (Andy and Abbey) for Andy's birthday and Abbey still works with Sara (we all worked together for 3 years at the daycare, they both still work there) and I had mentioned something to Abbey about Sara not getting us anything... she says "i know"... she went on to say she wanted to call me but wanted to talk after the wedding... Supposedly Sara stated to Abbey and a fellow co-worker that she was not going to get us anything for our wedding because.." I already had to pay $50 for the wedding shower gifts and a gift for Amy, I am not getting her more" Well Abbey and the other co-worker said, "you have to you guys are extremely close, you are standing up in her wedding, even if it only a little something" Sara then told them.."oh i will get her a gift card or something".... Well she never did get us anything. I guess I am not mad about this but hurt. I mean i considered her a close friend i lived with her, had many drunken night talks, had her in my wedding, been though many up and downs...and she felt that i wasn't worth it. And i wouldn't care even if she got us a card, or a homemade happy marriage thing... I think it just adds to the fact that she also forgot my birthday in June. the only reason she remembered was because we were texting back and forth and i said grant got me a bike for my birthday, then she was like oh man i forgot. I just really don't know how to fell about it, hurt really sums it up...but hey who needs that in their life right? who knows how much we will even talk anymore, she really needs to straighten up and do a little bit of growing up ( she is 27 almost 28 but doesn't act like it). Plus she is not pregnant with #2 with her boyfriend (and no the first one is not his)...it wasn't planned and she will occasionally call it her "bastard child"... that also hurts i read Bring the Rain (on my blog list) and would never ever imagine calling any unborn child that. Well now that is off my chest and it feels good.
Lets see, not much else going on this week has been crazy trying to get back into the swing of things...it almost feels like something is missing now that i don't have wedding plans to do...now maybe we need to start on baby plans...no folks i am not telling you i am pregnant...do i want to be yes...but i am not..... YET! hehe hopefully soon we will start trying...we need a house first, but being pregnant would definitely speed that up!
Well have a great weekend to all!
Amy